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Change Your Frequency

Jan 22
3 min read

How do we change our frequency? In a word or two: Intent and Choice. Set your intention and make choices that align with those intentions. Every choice- even the tiny, minute ones. Even the subconscious and unconscious ones. It all matters. 


Each seemingly insignificant choice either brings you closer to your intentions or carries you further from them. You set your intentions already, all the time: on a goal, on a god, on portraying a fashion trend, on achieving relationship ideal, on being a particular type of friend, on a following a career plan, etc. Each one of these and untold others vibrate on a different frequency. Achieving them requires different things from us. This is the mechanics of HOW things like faith, love, ambition, success, happiness…this is HOW these things are achieved and function. Similarly, failure, depression, addiction, grief…this is how these work, too.  


These aren’t far-off ideas that you have to learn. You are already living them. They are ingrained in our DNA and in the fabric of the universe itself. It isn’t imagination, it is reality. You are subject to them whether you believe it or like it or not. 


Set your intention. Make choices that align to your intention. The rest will follow. It isn’t about emotions or “will” (yours or god’s)...it is about the choices you make. There’s no faking it, and this is as real as it gets. You were only ever supposed to fake it UNTIL YOU FIGURED OUT HOW TO DO IT RIGHT. Better aligned choices = higher frequencies. Poorly aligned choices = lower frequencies. An unauthentic faked choice is still a low-vibrating outcome. So, if you are being nice for your own selfish reasons, and not for the good of the other person or for your own overall spiritual good, then it is still a low-vibrating outcome. You see? 


We don’t “make good choices” out of fear of punishment or guilt at perceived failures. That is operating in shame or fear. Low frequency. We do it because that is the way to become the person we want to be. Ambition. Because others deserve it. Hope. Because it’s about love. High frequency. Think of it: you set your intentions to buy a new car. Then you make choices that are aligned with that intention. How much of your attention is focused on this effort? Do you make 10 choices each day that are aligned with your goal of buying a new car? Great! Did you also make 500 other choices that are NOT aligned with this goal? 500 choices versus 10 choices. The math doesn’t work this way, but I think you guys get my point: how much of your time and behavior is devoted to your set intentions? 


Works the same with happiness. Stability. Good job. Relationships. It all works the same. You can’t manifest a good job by living like a bad employee. You can’t manifest a better relationship by always focusing on greener pastures. You don’t manifest personal peace by attacking others. This is why. Relationships- all kinds- born out of dishonesty and betrayal never prosper. This is why.


Think of it. Set your intentions. Make choices that align with those intentions. One fucking choice at a time. They all count. They all matter. You can’t get any of them back. So stop fucking around. Get busy intending and choosing. Eyes up.

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